She Painted Our NEW Cabinets Black and I Cried Like a Baby!

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  • My grandpa and I are always out fishing and he’s slowing down and He is an absolute different person. My grandpas brother just passed from cancer and I think my grandpa won’t make it until Christmas this year. Tell Huston to go fishing with you as much as he can because he’ll miss it.

    Braden GalyeanBraden Galyean5 kun oldin
  • Lil brother are a sweet boy

    Ani JohnsonAni Johnson7 kun oldin
  • You are such a blessing! Thank you for sharing the way you do!!! Be blessed!!!!

    Ron ThompsonRon Thompson9 kun oldin
  • *************DANIEL,,,my Daddy is the biggest fisherman I know. That is next to my husband anyhow. My Daddy took us on a deep sea fishing trip off the coast of San Diego for our HONEYMOON,,,now that's dedicated fishermen! You touched my heart with your story and JESUS BLESS YOU AND THESE FUTURE ENDEAVORS !*****************************

    lisa reaumelisa reaume11 kun oldin
  • Word of advice brother. Y'all need less of work uniform style merch, more catchy fun styles. Flags, prayers, and personality. That's what sells

    Tim R. handymanTim R. handyman11 kun oldin
  • Can’t believe how much rain you’re getting

    Thomas ROGERSThomas ROGERS13 kun oldin
  • Gosh where's my tissues 😪.How sad. I agree 100% that you should spend time with your family fulfilling dreams or going on vacations or just spending quality time enjoying eachother. There's no do overs so dont grow old an wake up with a bunch of regrets. I recently started watching your video's an you have a adorable family including all your cute an funny critters. I truelly look forward to following you guy's an watching this new journey unfold. Good luck & God's Blessings to you. Watching from Arkansas..🙏🐾🐏🐖🐐🐗🐕🐿🌰🐾

    Deana BoswellDeana Boswell14 kun oldin
  • I think they look very nice

    Tanya MelluseTanya Melluse16 kun oldin
  • Yes! I say paintwhat ever you want! I did mine white.

    katherine Hannakatherine Hanna19 kun oldin
  • Unfortunately, some of us are not as fortunate to have had a good experience with their father. Watching you and hearing of your times with your dad helps me know that some sons were cherished by their father. I am thankful that my Heavenly Father knows my struggles and cares for me. Thank You Lord

    ACE KingACE King25 kun oldin
  • I pored teires

    Joseph VaileJoseph Vaile26 kun oldin
  • Thank you for sharing your story with us.I know it took alot for you to get thru sharing this .

    Marvina BigbyMarvina Bigby26 kun oldin
  • i just had a heart attack at 50, im feeling like you. Blessings.

    elizabeth bjornelizabeth bjornOy oldin
  • Black on oak??? What a waste of beautiful wood.

    Ginger AndersonGinger AndersonOy oldin
  • The truth shall set you free indeed.

    Christy SChristy SOy oldin
  • Vaccines, gmo foods, chemtrails, flouride... slow kill.. democide.. by design.. so you don't get to enjoy retirement

    Christy SChristy SOy oldin
  • I did that. My husband had to quit work because he got sick and I had to quit working to take care of him.

    Croswellian PrincessCroswellian PrincessOy oldin
  • I didn't like the black cabinets UNTIL you put the countertop on and then the sink. THEN, it was then that it transformed the black cabinets! They look awesome! That corner is beautiful! Never before would I dream black cabinets could be pretty! My condolences on the loss of your dad. It is OK that you tear talking about him. It shows how human you are and the closeness you had with your dad. I liked hearing you say "pray about it" when thinking about a change in career.

    cet765cet765Oy oldin
  • Don't DEPEND on you tube for a salary to support your family.

    SarahSarahOy oldin
  • Recently we dumped the Keurig and went back to percolator coffee. Best tasting coffee ever. Sorry for your loss. Keep pursuing your dreams.

    Donnali PetersDonnali PetersOy oldin
  • My favorite video of yours. 😪🙏

    Kim BurnsKim BurnsOy oldin
  • Never saw this guy before and he ends up in my feed and I’m not crying, you’re crying 😭

    ohnoyceohnoyceOy oldin
  • Your story touched my heart.

    G DacaG DacaOy oldin
  • Bless your Heart, God Bless you and your family!

    Judy BerryJudy BerryOy oldin
  • Leave her be, the black works!! ;) Heartache at the loss of a loved one...not a decent human if you don't get choked up.

    Mishelle KochelMishelle KochelOy oldin
  • Very inspiring for me. You just solidified what I want to do. My gift. Thank you! Very sorry for your loss. God bless you and your family. You will rock this brother. Keep the vibes high and the prayers flowing. ☮️

    Candice MossCandice MossOy oldin
  • my Dad passed in 2017, he did retired and lived to enjoyed it, but I still miss him alot. I'm a disabled Veteran and have about 7 more month to retired, I already know what's my gift n when that comes I'm going, Wife n I on the road and enjoy America. Thank you sir for your service as a trooper and thank you for your videos.

    Jesse SaenzJesse SaenzOy oldin
  • That piece cut out for sink makes a nice cutting board

    Marlene CardinahlMarlene CardinahlOy oldin
  • My parents always talked about vacations and visits to do after Dad retired, but Dad died at 55 years old. I was 19 years old. I decided then that I would take some time off when I reached my early 50s. I was going to take 3 years to start my hobby farm and then get a part time teaching job, but I had an accident and have not been able to teach since then. But I did get the farm started with chickens, and over the last few years have added dogs, goats and bees and indoor gardening. I am living the life Dad wanted and I'm happy doing it. Now if I could get the animals to help with work - I'm the only human on 10 acres!

    monica luketichmonica luketichOy oldin
  • Take your Uncle fishing

    Charlyn WalterCharlyn WalterOy oldin
  • I like the Black

    Daphane McConnellDaphane McConnellOy oldin
  • Gosh darnit.. you are the second one tonight to make me cry..

    Tracy KaiserianTracy KaiserianOy oldin
  • ❤️ the personal story. Thank you

    Kimberly SanfordKimberly SanfordOy oldin
  • Keep living....and thank you!

    Anne AndrewsAnne AndrewsOy oldin
  • I Love the black cabinets they go well with the rest of the room.

    That Creepy FamilyThat Creepy FamilyOy oldin
  • I LOVE the black cabinets!! Good job!

    Anna McGeeAnna McGeeOy oldin
  • A lot of us trade our lives working to build up our lives and miss life....

    Angela McKinleyAngela McKinleyOy oldin
  • Amen

    Clara SoberanesClara SoberanesOy oldin
  • I have terminal cancer and I’m 59. Your doing the right thing! Your family will never say I wish Dad wasn’t here for us! You wife is a lucky women! Your an awesome man and father!

    Teresa SheltonTeresa SheltonOy oldin
  • Good go for it. God bless

    Sharon SmithSharon SmithOy oldin
  • you found your calling for sure.. You are gifted at making these videos. Feel like I have known you for a long time because of how you open up in these videos

    S JS JOy oldin
  • I love the cabinets painted black. Nobody except you and her have the right to say anything about them.

    Renee ClarkRenee ClarkOy oldin
  • Awsomme testament, thank you for it!

    Dan CarrierDan CarrierOy oldin
  • Y'all are so white

    Emile tessierEmile tessierOy oldin
  • Daniel, Maybe now your uncle is retired you and him can do some of the things your dad and he was suppose to do. Thanks for sharing such a personal story with your viewers. I am so happy you share your faith in God on your channel. Love your channel and family. May God bless you on your new journey.

    Little Bit of ParadiseLittle Bit of ParadiseOy oldin
  • I think the cabinet's look nice!

    vceofananglvceofananglOy oldin
  • I understand both my Parents are in Heaven and I miss them every day wishing I had just one more day with them. I look forward to being reunited in Heaven with them! Much love and many blessings to you and your family.

    Do Ray JaneDo Ray JaneOy oldin
  • yea lost my dad in 2009 it really suck miss him soo much..

    Rendell NobleRendell NobleOy oldin
  • paint type, prime on bare wood first ????? did she prime, please polyurethane interior (bottoms only) of cabinets for waterproofing purposes

    MutlapMutlapOy oldin
  • May God greatly bless and enrich your lives! Enjoy every moment with your loved ones

    Norma TotherowNorma TotherowOy oldin
  • OK, your an entertainer. That's legit, so many refuse to do the minimum. You walked away from putting your life on the line and from putting your family in jeopardy. GOOD FOR YOU! Their is no fault in what you are doing.

    Tom Vicarri LtColDaddy71Tom Vicarri LtColDaddy71Oy oldin
  • You deserve to cry when talking about your dad. Don't apologize.

    paul gamblinpaul gamblinOy oldin
  • YOU GO GIRL!!!

    Bonnie Jo Steffen ThompsonBonnie Jo Steffen ThompsonOy oldin
  • ❤️

    Kristi TKristi TOy oldin
  • I lost my brother in our early 30s. I’m still mad at him , love him ,and miss him. It’s been 14 years.

    Melissa KardosMelissa KardosOy oldin
  • You are the best you tuber ever

    Matt PittmanMatt PittmanOy oldin
  • I love the black cabinets

    ann lindstromann lindstromOy oldin
  • I resonate with this so much. My dad was diagnosed with brain cancer 1 year ago this passed month. Same situation. Other than my mother was sickly and he took care of her for over 20 yrs. so I had to do everything. Had to get him on short term disability then retire him out. He was 66 yrs old. Took care of both of them for 6 months with a 1 1/2 yr old and a fiancé who worked b shift. Well long story short 5 days before my dad passed I walked into their house and found my mom dead. (Of natural causes). Brought my dad home to my house on hospice and watched him die 5 days later. So my heart is with you. I still cry everyday. And I’m sure that will last a while longer. But all I can do is try my hardest to move fort for my daughter.

    My Beasts BeautyMy Beasts BeautyOy oldin
  • I'm not sure how I came across your video today, but I'm so glad I did. I sat crying with you, taking to heart what you shared. Thank you, and may God bless you and your family on your journey.

    J. HarbinJ. HarbinOy oldin
  • You made the right decision.

    Jean FaganJean FaganOy oldin
  • ¡¡¡hola!! soy de Argentina!!! es hermoso lo que hacen !!! son muy espirituales y llegan a lo más profundo de nuestro ser!!! gracias!!! son muy ""beatifull""

    Juan FigueroaJuan FigueroaOy oldin
  • Pray that my husband would stop worrying and start living his name is Scott thank you

    Kellie LindesmithKellie LindesmithOy oldin
  • Man! I came here thinking I was going to see a grown man crying over his wife painting some cabinets because he either loved them or hated them. Instead heard something that pulled more at my heartstrings that just reaffirms what I’ve been needing to hear, to do more of what you love and don’t wait until ‘retirement’ to start living life!

    C LacroixC LacroixOy oldin
  • I think you did a great job on the painting and I would have painted them black too love the color

    Cheryl M. OwensCheryl M. OwensOy oldin
  • Definitely just brought the water works

    Roski's WayRoski's WayOy oldin
  • Brand New sub here and just want to say THANK YOU!! for your honest, thought- provoking insight into what REALLY matters in life. I can relate to this subject more than you can imagine and shedding a few myself as I write this. I lost a relationship with the most beautiful and special woman, ever to come into my life in 2010 , on Halloween night, actually she walked with no dear -John letter the next day, and I've been devastated, so damaged and scarred inside and out ever since. Got Lyme's disease 8 yrs ago, followed by morgellons disease (another bioweapon disease linked to Lyme's) 6 yrs ago,. And have wanted to basically die most days for the past decade, but too afraid of hell to finish it properly... After serving in the U S. Air Force overseas during desert shield , storm , Sumi, hope/comfort and other things, I ran my own independent and successful roofing business for 22 yrs until 4 yrs ago, my 1830's historic home is owned and completely paid off , this August was 8 yrs,. My point in relating to this..... is >> what is the meaning of life?.... In my case, everything I dreamed of achieving and having with a girl I could love with everything and have her love me back, retirement, my home, my freedom, and my once-perfect health,,,,and all the literal blood, sweat, tears, the pain, curses, blessings, the rain, fire, snow, and cold ... I finally got my home, my independence with remaining a self-created, self employed, driven hustler, has never wavered, always been Paramount to my personal freedom..... Just like your dad's friend , your "uncle"-. Finally getting to rest from the never- ending grind of hustling, and guess what??--. IT'S NOT WORTH A TINKERS DAMN TO ME,!!. without a free country*** without health, happiness, true love, and somebody worthy enough to share it with, and share my "life" with, what's left of it. (49). And on top of it all, they are trying to force this global and national "RESET" down our throats, this worldwide HOAX, the lockdowns, the camps and coming forced "nano"-laced vax injections,(for those of you not following me, you better WAKE UP!) And, the smart chips, "THE GRAND DELUSION", (91-vC, for algoryth.gods)- sent by our irate and totally pissed- off God and creator,. that I find my self feeling almost totally helpless to abort or fix, or make right again........And I find myself, like millions of others, wondering wtf did I suffer, sacrifice, and do all that work for???? For what? Nothing!! To have it vanishing before my very eyes...... Unless I reinvent myself, FIND ANOTHER PURPOSE, Or a dream- angel falls from heaven into my lap to love me and create a future with,,, Or I can finally be released from this perpetual nightmare my life and this once-free, once-Christian nation has digressed and devolved into.... Life is SHORT people! Make GOOD AND MEANINGFUL DECISIONS LOVE THOSE AROUND YOU AND ONLY KEEP AROUND YOU,, THOSE WORTHY OF YOUR ENERGY AND LOVE! 🇺🇸💪🔫👣🗡️🇺🇸 🌎⌛

    Tim RunkleTim RunkleOy oldin
  • THIS time I did not look at anyone else’s comments. After hearing and tearing about your dad, his bestie, your decision to leave your job and persue your dream, who cares about how your wife painted the brand new cabinets. That’s what she wanted. You only live once. It can always be removed if she changes her mind. Follow your dream as you’re lead by our L-rd. Blessings

    Me MMe MOy oldin
  • I know your story. My father past away 2 years ago. Mama and him bought a house in a small town close to a popular fishing lake. What my Daddy would be doing in his retirement years. Fish. After moving there and before he could really fish he lost his eyesight. All of his plans for fishing were gone. They tried fishing but Daddy was never one that accepted help very well. My husband had to retire because of 2 strokes. Not what we had planned for our retirement years. I do feel however I am right where I am supposed to be. God always has a plan. There will be time for my dreams later. Right now I am the care taker of my husband and a special needs son. I feel for you tho losing your Dad. Thank you for sharing.

    Cindi AllainCindi AllainOy oldin
  • Great video.......never apologize for tears, they are the Lord letting us cleanse our emotions from the inside out........and tears are emotions so strong there are no words to explain them. It shows the depth of love and goodness in your heart and that also comes from our folks who guided us along lifes's hard to loose a part of ourselves via our indeed they are always a part of us no matter what. Lucky family to have you as the head of leading and guiding them. Blessings ............take good care!

    Mary Lou MulloyMary Lou MulloyOy oldin
  • Bless

    MadamMorganMadamMorganOy oldin
  • You made me cry. I took care of my mother for the last 22 1/2 years of her life. The first 17 were great, then she developed a heart murmur and she wasn't getting enough Oxygen to her brain and got vascular dementia. The soonest I could retire was I October 2015. We planned on really spending some quality time together. She stopped eating enough to sustain her life in August 2012 and I knew her body was shutting down. She been put on Hoslice at that time. I didn't have any sick leave left and no one would help cover my inspections, so I was crazy busy at work, my heart was breaking because I had to leave my mother to go to work I was a Florida health inspector for Collier County and the only inspector in facilities for half the county since Rick Scott became the govenor. I prayed to God to let me have one more Thanksgiving with my mother. October 30th, the day before my birthday, I got kicked in the side of my right knee by one of my Mustangs. It was my fault I got kicked, I put too much pressure on her because the vet was coming to give the Mustans their annual Coggins test and vaccinate them. She kicked and I went down. That kick gave me 6 weeks, since I was on the sick leave pool, I was paid. But my mother would eat for me. She made it for Thanksgiving, so I thanked God and asked God to keep her alive for me so we could give her a great Christmas. He did. Then I prayed to God to let her have a great last birthday. Her birthday was January 27th and almost all her family came. She was so happy. And I thanked God for the time I had her. She had a stroke the first of February and was bed bound until she went to her forever home March 7th, 2013. I spent the last year of her life afraid to go to work, then dreading coming home because I didn't know if she would be dead. I had promised her that I would retire when I could, so I retired at 62 and I haven't looked back.

    Starlene KalinskiStarlene KalinskiOy oldin
  • Faith...

    Suzanne SimmonsSuzanne Simmons2 oy oldin
  • Enjoy watching you! Glad I found you and your family. God bless

    mary ann barnesmary ann barnes2 oy oldin
  • Where did you get that coffee pot?

    Gary MaidenGary Maiden2 oy oldin
  • Black is in fact a terrible choice for furniture! - subconciously depressing!

    Maia Caroline SimonMaia Caroline Simon2 oy oldin
  • Black a no go for oak whiter or gray

    Jacob CarterJacob Carter2 oy oldin
  • Love the black!!!!

    LKH HarrisLKH Harris2 oy oldin
  • Thank you for sharing your emotions and feelings with us.

    Jane SnyderJane Snyder2 oy oldin
  • Thank you so much for that story. I have had so many crazy things happen to me in my life where I should or could have died. But for some reason I didn't, I always thought it's because God has a plan for me. We are raising our granddaughter at the age of 60 I think I know why now. So I need to be good to myself for that precious child and give her the life she deserves. I had a rough days today and I just wanted to throw in the towel and say forget it. But I look at her smiling face as she knocks her dinner out of my hands all over the floor and she laughs. I feel so guilty now thinking about that and then hearing your story. I know what to do now. I am going to put my big girl panties on and get it done and love her thank god that he gave her to us. Thank you for that story I needed. I am sorry for your loss ,but I glad you are living the life you want . And God be with you. 💖

    Mary ZylemaMary Zylema2 oy oldin
  • Amen-I hope all works out well 💕

    Mary CornellMary Cornell2 oy oldin
  • I like ... love the cabinet color.

    ArLanda BryantArLanda Bryant2 oy oldin
  • You have no idea what you just did for me. God definitely called you to do this. I've been thinking for months and months, praying and praying, crying and being scared but at the same time knowing deep down inside that God is calling me to do something else. He is giving me every sign and seeing this video, listening to your story was just one of those signs from God.... again. How many more signs do I need to take that leap? Thank you for your story

    Veronica -Roni-Veronica -Roni-2 oy oldin
  • thank you for this I know how you are feeling Time goes so fast and most of us just let it pass by only for us to look back and say why didnt i take the time Thank you and your family and the black paint will not show dirt as much as white paint

    sheila collinssheila collins2 oy oldin
  • God Bless you & your Dad & your Uncle too!! Touched my heart!❤️

    Dawn CorderoDawn Cordero2 oy oldin
  • Like the Coffee ☕ pot/peculator. I have one too like that same color, but jus a little bit bigger. You have a nice place/homestead - it's beautiful country. Great presentation and video 👍 Thumbs Up 👍 Like 👍👏 ✌️ Brother ✌️🤙 🇺🇸✝️🇺🇸

    South Texas Brush Country BoySouth Texas Brush Country Boy2 oy oldin
  • cupboards look amazing and I usually don't like painted wood but that black looks really nice

    Dayleeyah KalonjiDayleeyah Kalonji2 oy oldin
  • Son, better your wife doing that to those oak cabinets than mine. If you don't mind it, no one else should because it ain't no one's else's business. 😥

    Ron WallaceRon Wallace2 oy oldin
  • Nothing wrong with painting oak black. I've done it. Turned out great. Looked factory.

    petedogg369petedogg3692 oy oldin
  • Thank you for being real. God bless you and your family, Connie from SC 🙌🙏✝️❤️🤗🎣

    cpames55cpames552 oy oldin
  • I haven't subscribe to your channel yet but I did look at this video and it made me cry at the end to but I just wanted to say that it's ok to cry just because you're a guy you do have a heart just like women and I have mad respect for you for showing your hearts feelings please spent as much time with your uncle as you can I lost my grandfather along time ago but I miss him as if it was yesterday we did so much together and he was like a father to me and I wish he was still here but not in pain but like I said try your best to spend time with your uncle as you can we only get them a short time in our life

    vanessa franklinvanessa franklin2 oy oldin
  • Wow, thanks for sharing this.😪😪 I got a similarly in my case with my mom and also when I met my wife my mom say " now I can go home because God send you the right woman in your life, you are in good hands now" I got married on October 21st 2017 and my mom move to heaven on December 29 2017. God bless you sir and your family. Enjoy your family all the way.

    Boriken NauticalBoriken Nautical2 oy oldin
  • I absolutely love perculated coffee especially over a fire. That smoky flavor is great.

    Restoring Light Church of Christ Pastor April ShineRestoring Light Church of Christ Pastor April Shine2 oy oldin
  • What if you never figured out what your gift is? 😞

    yosoylachichiyosoylachichi2 oy oldin
  • Don't EVER apologize for showing your heart. These days everyone is so consumed with anger and violence that its refreshing to see a real man show his heart. Im so sorry for your loss. That sting is like no other. But thanks be to Jesus, we will see our loved ones again. Bless you and your family.

    Cheryl RobbeartsCheryl Robbearts2 oy oldin
  • Margot VandenwijngaerdenMargot Vandenwijngaerden2 oy oldin
  • Daniel I always love your video, they really make you think about a lot of things that goes on in our life. Very inspiring!

    Maria BradfordMaria Bradford2 oy oldin
  • Your title makes it sound like you cried because the cupboards are black. You're the master of clickbait, aren't you.

    V GilV Gil2 oy oldin
  • Arms Family Homestead always enjoy your videos 🌟Listening from Mass USA🌟Hello🌟everyone🌷

    Cheryl CallahanCheryl Callahan2 oy oldin
  • Ad for Kubota??

    mj cmj c2 oy oldin
  • Wow, this tore me up!

    Shirley HShirley H2 oy oldin